Blame is lighter when shared, and for many of us, it’s 0% me, and 100% someone else. Many plays that game, some take control of their lives quickly, others wait on life to do it for them. And life teaches with a whip and takes control away from you. Bringing another human being into our world to change our lives, prospective and thinking is like waiting for a savior. And many of us got one, or a few. The responsibility of raising a child tends to transform or reform many of us. Many managed to make it last, others don’t. What will happen to the children of the ones who couldn’t hold on long enough? None of us have it all together! None! Humans aren’t created that way!