Carol did not stay with any of the three of us; we gave her money. Instead, she convinced another married woman to take her in. And when she left, she took that husband with her, too. It was her nature. Carol is what she is, but she is still my long-term friend, but she is not allowed in my home when I am not there. My spouse has strict instructions never to let her in until I arrive. I told him she was a thief. And she is… a husband thief, just not my husband. I still love her, though.