While listening to a master monk, I discovered that we are expected to be grateful in all things. He implied that we should be grateful even as we face horrific happenings and dark times. In challenging times of hurt, disappointments, and loss, he stated we should remain in a constant state of gratitude, and withstanding, we would become mentally stronger, spiritually wiser, more patient, and thereby, truly grateful. Easy talk for a man who has already mastered losses and sufferings.