So, if you say: “I am fat, I am ugly, I am skinny, I am weird, I am boring, I am poor, I am unloved,” automatically you tell life: “This is what I am! There’s nothing to be done.” And if life believes it, you start to believe it too and settle into not wanting to change anymore, into not changing your ways, into being the way you believe you are. And I assure you, the only truth about your “being” is that you are mutable. Things are happening al…